bisexual women shouldn't have to downplay the intensity of our attraction to men and bisexual women shouldn't have to add a disclaimer about how we don't actually like, like men and bisexual women shouldn't have to assure anyone that we like women more, or that we like men but we only love women, or that we would never be with a man voluntarily, yadda yadda yadda.... like what started as a joke about preferring women either because of a shared experience or because of the euphoria of realizing we could be attracted to women has turned into a game to convince everyone that we're not like those bisexuals. and the thing is!! a couple years ago we recognized this as a real issue but now we seem to have agreed that it's nbd because men suck anyways or whatever.......... whatever.
and? when y'all say shit about how bisexual women don't have to center our lives around men because we can just be with women you're assuming our attraction and interaction with men is "centering our lives around them" or catering to them or performing femininity for them and it's ridiculous. bisexual women can fuck and date and marry men and it still doesn't mean we're centering our lives around them or sacrificing our values or betraying our communities to be with them. the audacity.